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Unlock Your Potential with Visualisation Techniques: Overcome Negative Beliefs, Improve Performance & Achieve Your Goals

Benefits of Visualisation Techniques for Overcoming Negative Beliefs, Improving Performance & Achieving Goals

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Visualisation can also be called mental imagery. This technique involves creating vivid and realistic images in our minds. It works by activating the same brain regions that are involved in actually performing the action being imagined. When we imagine ourselves doing something successfully, our brains are essentially rehearsing that activity and creating neural pathways that support the desired behaviour.

Visualisation taps into the power of our subconscious minds, which is the part that controls our thoughts, emotions, and actions. By using visualisation, we can program our subconscious minds with positive images and ideas, which can help us to overcome negative beliefs and emotions that may be holding us back.

Visualisation is also helpful because it helps us to stay focused and motivated on our goals. When we have a clear mental picture of what we want to achieve, it becomes easier to stay on track and make progress towards our goals.

By using visualisation techniques, we can prepare for challenging situations and improve our performance. For example, athletes often use visualisation to enhance their physical skills and mental focus. Similarly, we can use visualisation to prepare for public speaking, job interviews, or other high-pressure situations. By visualising a successful work presentation or job interview beforehand, we can boost our confidence.

Visualisation can also help us to reduce anxiety and negative thoughts. By imagining positive outcomes and rehearsing successful behaviours, we can build confidence and self-esteem.




Visualisation Exercise for Successful Interview

  1. Find a quiet place where you can sit or lie down comfortably.

  2. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths to relax your body and mind.

  3. Visualise yourself entering the interview room with a calm and confident demeanour.

  4. See yourself answering the interviewer's questions with ease and clarity, demonstrating your knowledge and experience.

  5. Imagine the interviewer nodding and smiling, impressed by your answers.

  6. Visualise yourself making good eye contact, smiling, and using confident body language.

  7. Picture yourself closing the interview on a positive note, thanking the interviewer for their time and expressing your enthusiasm for the opportunity.

  8. Finally, imagine receiving a call or email from the interviewer offering you the job.

  9. Take a few deep breaths and slowly open your eyes, feeling calm and confident about your ability to ace the interview.





Visualisation Exercise for Successful art exam. 

  1. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths to calm your nerves and relax your body as you prepare to take your art exam.

  2. Visualise yourself walking into the exam room with a calm and confident demeanor. See yourself setting up your materials and tools with ease, ready to demonstrate your artistic abilities.

  3. Imagine confidently beginning your exam, moving your hand with purpose and precision as you bring your creative vision to life.

  4. Visualise yourself working through each section of the exam with clarity, showcasing your mastery of various techniques and mediums.

  5. Picture yourself finishing the exam on a positive note, feeling proud of your work.

  6. Visualise yourself receiving positive feedback and compliments from the examiners, impressed by your artistic talents and creativity.

  7. Finally, imagine the sense of accomplishment and pride you'll feel when you receive your exam results, knowing that you've worked hard and given it your all.

  8. Take a few deep breaths and slowly open your eyes, feeling proud and confident about your ability to succeed in your art exam.


Visualisation Exercise for Successful presentation 

  • Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths to calm your nerves and relax your body.

  • Visualise yourself walking up to the podium with a calm and confident demeanour.

  • See yourself delivering your presentation with ease and clarity, demonstrating your knowledge and expertise on the topic.

  • Imagine the audience nodding and smiling, impressed by your presentation skills and the information you're sharing.

  • Visualise yourself making good eye contact, using confident body language and gesturing appropriately to emphasise key points.

  • Picture yourself closing the presentation on a positive note, thanking the audience for their time and expressing your enthusiasm for any follow-up discussions.

  • Imagine yourself taking questions and being able to answer them. Visualise meeting questions you don’t know the answer to with gratefulness for their interest, curiosity and intention to explore the topic further.

  • Finally, imagine receiving compliments and feedback from the audience, and invitations to connect and collaborate in the future.

  • Take a few deep breaths and slowly open your eyes, feeling proud and confident about your ability to deliver a successful presentation.





Keep it real.

Visualisation can be a powerful tool for preparing for difficult situations. However, it's important for us to approach it in a realistic way to make it most effective.

When using visualisation to prepare for a challenging situation, it's important for us to create a mental picture that is as realistic as possible. This means imagining the situation as it is likely to unfold, including any potential challenges or obstacles that we may face. It's also important for us to imagine ourselves responding to these challenges in a calm and confident way, rather than trying to avoid or ignore them.

The role of visualisation in preparing for difficult situations is to help us feel more prepared and confident. By creating a mental picture of the situation in our mind's eye, we can begin to familiarise ourselves with the challenges and obstacles that we may face. This can help to reduce anxiety and uncertainty, allowing us to feel more in control of the situation.

Visualisation can also help us to develop a plan of action. By imagining ourselves responding to challenges in a calm and confident way, we can begin to identify strategies and approaches that may be effective. This can help us to feel more prepared and empowered, increasing our chances of success.

We can’t control how others behave, but we can control how we respond to their actions. One way for us to prepare for potential challenges is through visualisation. By imagining how we would like to respond to difficult situations, we can begin to develop a plan of action. This visualization can help us identify strategies and approaches that align with our values and may be effective in the situation.

Overall, the key to using visualisation effectively is for us to approach it in a realistic and grounded way. By creating a mental picture that reflects the situation as it is likely to unfold, and by imagining ourselves responding in a calm and confident way, we can prepare ourselves mentally.



Keep your values in mind

When faced with challenging situations, it can be helpful to respond in line with our values. By staying true to our principles and acting in accordance with what we believe is right, we can feel more grounded and confident in our decisions. This approach can also help us to maintain our composure and respond in a calm and respectful manner, even in the face of adversity. Overall, aligning our actions with our values can be a powerful tool for managing difficult situations with integrity and grace.

Visualisation Exercise for disregarding OCD thoughts 

  • Find a quiet place where you can sit or lie down comfortably.

  • Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths to calm your body and mind.

  • Visualise a serene and peaceful environment, like a beach, countryside or  forest, where you feel calm and at ease.

  • Imagine yourself standing in front of a whiteboard or a large screen, and see yourself writing down all the intrusive, negative, and critical thoughts that come to your mind.

  • Now visualise yourself erasing each thought one by one.

  • Focus now on positive, kind, empowering, and supportive affirmations.

  • See yourself feeling more and more calm and confident as you let go of the negative ideas and embrace the positive ones.

  • Imagine a bright healing light shining down on you, filling you with warmth and positivity. 

  • Picture yourself feeling lighter and happier, free from the weight of the negative thoughts that used to hold you back.

  • Finally, take a deep breath and slowly open your eyes, feeling renewed and refreshed, ready to face the day with a positive attitude and a clear mind.



Visualisation Exercise for having a tricky conversation

  • Find a quiet place where you can sit or stand comfortably.

  • Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths to calm your nerves and relax your body.

  • Visualise yourself sitting down with the person you need to have the difficult conversation with.

  • See yourself expressing your concerns or grievances calmly and respectfully, using clear and assertive language.

  • Imagine the other person listening to you with an open mind and heart, and responding to you with empathy and understanding.

  • Visualise yourself staying focused and centered, even if the conversation becomes challenging or emotional.

  • Picture yourself maintaining good eye contact, using confident body language, and speaking from the heart.

  • Now, imagine the conversation ending on a positive note, with both you and the other person feeling heard, respected and understood.

  • Finally, take a few deep breaths and slowly open your eyes, feeling calm and confident about your ability to have a difficult conversation with grace and compassion. Remind yourself that you are capable of handling any situation with clarity, confidence and kindness.






Visualisation Exercise for managing a big wave of emotions

  • Find a quiet place where you can sit or lie down comfortably.

  • Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths to calm your nerves and relax your body.

  • Visualise yourself standing at the edge of a calm, peaceful lake.

  • Now imagine a strong wave of emotion washing over you, like a big wave crashing on the shore.

  • See the wave rise up and wash over you, acknowledging the emotion that you are feeling, without judging it or pushing it away.

  • Imagine the wave carrying away any negative thoughts or feelings, leaving you feeling lighter and clearer.

  • Visualise the wave passing by and receding back into the lake, leaving you feeling calm and at peace.

  • Picture yourself taking a few deep breaths and feeling centered and grounded in the present moment.

  • Now, imagine yourself stepping away from the lake and walking into a beautiful, lush forest.

  • See yourself surrounded by trees, flowers, and wildlife, feeling safe and supported by nature.

  • Imagine breathing in the fresh air and feeling rejuvenated and re-energised.

  • Finally, take a few deep breaths and slowly open your eyes, feeling calm and centered, ready to face whatever challenges or emotions come your way with grace and equanimity.






When not to use visualisation

While visualisation can be a powerful tool for preparing for difficult situations and achieving our goals, it's important to be mindful of how we use it. It is possible to become too reliant on visualisation as a safety-seeking behaviour, using it as a way of obsessively keeping control of our thoughts and actions. This can lead to a cycle of anxiety and avoidance, where we avoid real-world challenges and rely too heavily on our imagined scenarios.

Additionally, excessive use of visualisation can lead to unrealistic expectations and disappointment when things don't go as planned. It's important to remember that visualisation is just one tool in our toolbox, and it should be balanced with other strategies such as taking action, seeking support from others, and embracing uncertainty.

So, if you find yourself relying too heavily on visualisation or using it as a safety-seeking behaviour, it may be time to take a step back and reassess the use of this tool. Remember that visualisation is most effective when it's used in moderation and in conjunction with other strategies.



Visualisation is a powerful tool that can help you to achieve your goals, overcome obstacles and stay motivated and focused on what you want to achieve. By creating positive mental images of your desired outcomes, you can train your mind and body to work together to make your dreams a reality.



Lisa Johnston

Director My Therapist Online

CBT & EMDR Therapist

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